Does He Love Me Calculator

20 questions. One honest love score.

Wondering does he really love me? This 20-question quiz looks at consistency, effort, respect and future planning, the four things that actually predict love, rather than butterflies.

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How accurate is a does-he-love-me quiz?: No quiz can read his mind. What this does is turn scattered feelings into a pattern by scoring twenty behaviours that research consistently links to committed love, consistency, respect, repair after conflict and future planning.
What if my score is low but I still feel loved?: Feeling loved and being treated well can diverge, especially in intense or on-and-off relationships. Use the red flags list as the starting point of a conversation rather than a verdict.

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Love Language Quiz

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Heartwise tools are for reflection and education. They are not therapy, diagnosis or a substitute for professional support. If you feel unsafe in your relationship, please contact a local domestic-abuse service.