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Attachment Style Quiz
Anxious, avoidant, or secure.
Attachment style describes what you do when closeness feels uncertain. This quiz scores anxious, avoidant and secure tendencies, most people are a blend, and styles can shift over time.
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Questions people ask
- Can your attachment style change?
- Yes. Attachment is a learned strategy, not a fixed trait. Consistent, responsive relationships and therapy both move people toward secure attachment over time.
- What if I'm both anxious and avoidant?
- That combination is usually called fearful-avoidant or disorganised: wanting closeness and fearing it at the same time. It responds well to therapy focused on emotional regulation.
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Heartwise tools are for reflection and education. They are not therapy, diagnosis or a substitute for professional support. If you feel unsafe in your relationship, please contact a local domestic-abuse service.